Yes was what you said when you broke my hope and my dreams. I would like you was said a true “no” against a liar “yes”. Because that liar yes make me spend a lot of me and a lot of tears.
A lot of my heart, of my soul, my faith and my life. A lot of all about what a really would like to rescue, but I can’t. A lot about all that things we can never to turn back.
But that liar yes made me stronger and bigger. Those words and promises you never kept taught me precious lessons. And the most important of them was: I can be much more by myself.
I want to say it not for you, but for myself and others around the world. Everyone that think today like I thought in my recent past. Everyone that still understand love as a prison.
No, it’s not true my friend! If you are reading my words now and you think like this I have good news for you: love is a really very good thing! If you are suffering now, if you are sad, maybe it is not love.
Yes, problems exists in every relationships, many situations and until sad moments in your life. But no, things like humiliation, curses and every type of aggression… Definitively they doesn’t exist when the real love is present.
You don’t need to wait for nothing,
You don’t need to understand nothing,
You don’t need to hide nothing.
Just what you need is keep your head up and say for yourself that “real love just loves”. Nothing more matter, nothing more is important to consider, there isn’t nothing more to say. There are no tattered excuses.
The Bible say that “love is patient”, yes it’s true. And many other texts, poems, commandments and even the popular wisdom say that the love is something so powerful that you can support a lot of sad things in it’s name.
But no my friend, don’t confuse the power of love with stupidity and condescension. These are very different things. And who really knows the love can’t commit the mistake to confuse these things.
Who loves know limits and when to impose limits. Who loves know how to help others without destroy himself. Who loves know that to save the other you need to save yourself first.
When you are in an airplane you listen the instructions and it is “firstly to put the mask in yourself and just after you can help other person”. Think about it. When you are sad you can’t help no one, but you will confuse what is “to help”.
A happy person, someone who is complete in yourself, a person full of realizations, dreams and hope can offer all of this for other and can do much more! The sky is the limit for a person with his heart balanced.
But imagine for a second – maybe you are living something like this now… imagine how a unhappy person can offer happy for other? It’s simply impossible. You can give just what you have. What do you have to give now?
Now, if you are living with a kind of weight, just let this weight leave. After, rescue all of your forces and begin to build a new and different path. When you face the monsters they suddenly appear smaller they was before.
Believe me, the monsters are not your real challenge, but your fears. You are not arrested, nothing is holding on you otherwise your own feet locked by fear and by old concepts. But you are really free!
Sometimes the life say a “yes” for you, but it’s in fact it means a “no”. Run now of this lies! Run the fast you can without looking at behind! When the life say a liar YES, you can say a big NO back!
Say now a big NO to all lies that insist in stay in your life. Nothing can hold you, beyond your fear. Be free, scream aloud and face your monsters! They are not so strong as you think, but you are.
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